7 Questions That Will Snap You Out of Self-Doubt and Into Your Power

If you want to transform your life, you have to start by transforming how you see yourself.

Because your self-concept—the way you identify—is running everything.

Your goals.

Your habits.

Your relationships.

Your income.

Your ability to follow through.

It’s all rooted in one thing: Who you believe you are.

And most women are walking around with a version of themselves built on old stories, outdated labels, and years of shrinking, proving, and overthinking.

They’re trying to step into a new life with an identity that still believes they aren’t good enough.

And then they wonder why they’re stuck.

You don’t become her by doing more—you become her by seeing yourself differently.

And that shift starts with asking better questions.

The kind that don’t just make you think, but make you decide who you’re going to be from here on out.

Let’s go there. These 7 questions are going to wake something up in you.

1. What version of me am I still loyal to—and why?

We all have patterns we return to out of comfort:

• The girl who self-sabotages the second things feel good

• The one who plays small to make others more comfortable

• The version of you that’s terrified of being seen in her power

So ask yourself:

What version of me am I still choosing, even though I know I’ve outgrown her?

And why am I still loyal to her?

Is it fear? Familiarity? Shame?

Once you name it, you can release it.

2. Am I building a life that matches my desires—or my limitations?

Most people design their lives around what they think is realistic.

They build their routines, relationships, and decisions around the version of themselves who doubts.

But your dream life wasn’t meant to be built on limitations. It’s meant to be built from vision.

Ask yourself:

Am I choosing what I truly want?

Or am I making choices based on fear, scarcity, or low self-worth?

Big shifts happen the moment you stop asking “what’s realistic?” and start asking, “What would my highest self create?”

3. Who benefits when I stay small—and what is it costing me?

Read that again.

Every time you shrink, silence yourself, or hold back on your magic, someone benefits.

Maybe it’s the people who are comfortable with your old self.

Maybe it’s the version of you that fears rejection more than she desires growth.

But here’s the real question:

What is staying small costing you?

Time? Joy? Purpose? Income? Self-trust?

At some point, the cost of staying the same becomes heavier than the fear of change.

4. If I trusted myself completely—what would I do next?

This one hits hard.

Because self-trust is the foundation of every bold move you want to make.

Without it, you’ll second-guess, delay, and stay stuck in analysis paralysis.

So ask yourself honestly:

If I fully trusted my intuition, my capability, and my worth—what would I do?

What would I start? What would I end? What would I finally say yes to?

Then do it. Even if it scares you. Especially if it scares you.

Because you don’t build self-trust through thinking—you build it through action.

5. Am I acting like the woman I want to be—or the one I’ve always been?

This is the Be Her Now question.

Every time you make a decision, you’re reinforcing one of two identities:

• The old self who doubts and delays

• The next-level version who trusts and moves

Your actions are casting a vote for who you’re becoming.

So pause before you choose, and ask:

Would she say yes to this?

Would she keep that boundary?

Would she hide right now—or would she lead?

This is how you become her—one decision at a time.

6. What part of me am I still waiting to fix before I feel worthy?

Here’s a truth bomb:

You don’t need to be more productive, prettier, more successful, or more healed to be enough.

But most women are walking around with invisible checklists:

“I’ll finally feel confident when I lose the weight.”

“I’ll show up more once my brand looks better.”

“I’ll be ready to take action once I’m not anxious anymore.”

Stop outsourcing your worth.

You’re allowed to feel worthy while becoming.

Not once you’re finished—right now.

7. What would happen if I fully owned my magic—for real this time?

The truth is, you know you’re meant for more.

You feel it.

You’ve outgrown the girl who second-guesses.

You’re done pretending you don’t know what you’re capable of.

So let this question anchor you into a new reality:

What would change if I stopped hiding?

If I stopped waiting for permission?

If I stopped downplaying my voice, my story, my power?

Because you don’t need another reminder.

You need to move like it’s already yours.

This Is the Inner Work That Changes Everything

These are the kinds of shifts we make every single day inside The Inner GLO Academy.

This isn’t mindset work that lives in your journal and never changes your life.

This is full-on transformation from the inside out.

Inside the Academy, you’re guided through The GLO Method, our signature framework:

🌱 G – Growth Mindset Shift

→ Rewire your self-worth, break the cycles keeping you small, and finally start trusting yourself

🔥 L – Lifestyle Integration

→ Build the routines, habits, and boundaries that match the woman you’re becoming

👑 O – Own Your Life

→ Step fully into HER: the version of you who moves with confidence, clarity, and complete self-belief

This isn’t about becoming a better version of your old self.

This is about becoming the woman you were always meant to be.

And now that you’ve asked the deeper questions?

It’s time to answer them—with action.

Join The Inner GLO Academy and step fully into your next-level self—starting now.

And if you haven’t already make sure to follow me on Instagram @herinnerglo

Xo,

Alicia Arlene