Victim Mindset Is Keeping You Small—Here’s How to Rewire It

Hey girl,

Let’s cut straight to it—your dream life is waiting on you, but it will not come to you if you’re stuck in victim mode.

That version of you—the one who is confident, in control, and living the life she always dreamed of—doesn’t blame her circumstances. She doesn’t wait for someone to save her. She doesn’t dwell on why things aren’t working.

She decides to shift. She chooses to move differently.

And that starts with rewiring your mindset from victim mode to solution mode. Because the second you stop seeing obstacles as reasons to quit and start seeing them as opportunities to grow? Everything changes.

OKAY REAL TALK: This is how victim thinking is keeping you stuck:

Let’s be honest—we’ve all been there.

• “I can’t do this because I don’t have enough time.”

• “It’s easy for her, but my situation is different.”

• “Nothing ever works out for me.”

• “I’ve tried, but I just don’t think I’m meant for more.”

Sound familiar?

Victim mode keeps you stuck in cycles of frustration, doubt, and waiting. It tricks you into thinking you’re powerless when, in reality, you’ve always had the power to change your life.

It’s not your past that’s keeping you stuck. It’s not your circumstances. It’s not the lack of time, money, or support.

It’s the way you’re thinking about your situation.

And before you say, “But you don’t understand what I’ve been through…”—trust me girl, I KNOW we all have gone through some shit. Some of us, some real hard shit.

I spent years in a cycle of self-pity, thinking life had dealt me a bad hand. I thought if things outside of me would change, then maybe I’d finally feel worthy, confident, or ready to go after what I wanted.

But life doesn’t work that way.

You don’t wait for confidence—you build it. You don’t wait for circumstances to change—you shift your perspective first. You don’t wait to feel ready—you decide to be ready.

And that shift—from victim mode to solution mode—is exactly what separates the women who stay stuck from the women who rise.

Here’s the mindset shift that will change your entire life:

Victim mode asks, “Why is this happening to me?”

Solution mode asks, “How can I use this to my advantage?”

Victim mode blames circumstances.

Solution mode takes radical responsibility.

Victim mode waits for external changes.

Solution mode makes internal shifts first.

And here’s the kicker:

Your highest self—the woman who already has everything you desire—THINKS in solutions.

She doesn’t see obstacles as stop signs. She sees them as detours, lessons, and opportunities to grow. She doesn’t spiral when things don’t go as planned. She pivots. She doesn’t wait for motivation. She creates momentum by taking action anyway. She doesn’t let fear dictate her next move. She makes decisions from trust, not hesitation.

And if you want to become her, you have to start thinking like her NOW.

This is how you step into your power. This is how you rewire your mindset. This is how you shift out of waiting and into owning your future.

Mindset rewiring isn’t just about thinking positive thoughts. It’s about catching yourself in old patterns and choosing a different response.

The ‘Her Energy’ Mindset Shift

1. Catch yourself in victim thinking. Every time you hear yourself say, “I can’t because…” or “It’s not fair that…”, STOP and ask yourself: “Am I letting this take my power away, or am I finding a way forward?”

2. Reframe the situation. Instead of asking, “Why is this happening to me?” ask:

   What is this trying to teach me?

   How can I use this to my advantage?

   What would my highest self do right now?

   
   

3. Act with ‘Her Energy.’

   Your dream self doesn’t wait for permission to step into her power—she just does it. Start making decisions from her mindset. Start responding to challenges the way she would. Start handling setbacks with confidence instead of frustration. Watch how these actions become second nature and watch how fast you start FEELING like her.

   
   

Because the moment you start thinking like her? You become her.

If you’re ready to rewire your mindset, step into your highest self, and start making moves like the woman you know you’re meant to be—this is exactly why I created The Inner GLO Academy.

This isn’t another ‘how-to’ guide. It’s a full-on transformation. A method that shifts you from self-doubt, hesitation, and waiting into unshakable confidence, bold decision-making, and unstoppable momentum.

Inside, you’ll learn:

• The mindset rewiring techniques that shift you from victim mode to solution mode.

• The identity shift method that helps you embody confidence, self-trust, and her energy now.

• The exact habits, routines, and thought processes that successful, confident women live by.

  
  

Because the only thing standing between you and the life you want is the way you think- AKA your mindset.

And the moment you shift it? You become unstoppable.

xo,

Alicia